Queer Eye for the Straight Guy, but a spinoff version called Butch Pal for the Straight Gal. Where a bunch of lesbians show up and teach you basic home maintenance skills, show you how to build things, what to shop for at places like Home Depot, nail care, and setting higher standards for your dating partners.
There are lesbians and bi women who are not penis-repulsed.
And there are some who are penis-repulsed, with or *without* trauma.
“I would never date a trans woman,” is transphobic because it is a blanket statement on all trans women, implying they are men.
“I have penis-repulsion, which limits my sexual compatability with some women,” is a better, less transphobic thing to say cuz it also can refer to incompatability w/ cis women who prefer using strap-ons and dildos, while validating womanhood regardless of genitals.
bisexuals can’t speak for lesbians. no lesbian prefers dildos to human contact, porn lied to you.
i am a homosexual so as a female my sexuality is male incompatible, which includes trans women. i will never date a trans woman bc i am a lesbian. i have no thoughts on dicks bc i am a lesbian and my partners won’t have male genitals.
“there are lesbian who are not penis-repulsed” is a lie making us doubt our orientation to give males sexual satisfaction and gender validation. don’t fall for it. do you know what heteronormativity is? it’s this. social pressure to give peen a chance. you don’t know you hate it if you don’t try it. but when you pressure lesbians into sex with males it’s different, it’s corrective rape.
drop the t drop the t drop the t
also lots of us have never had anything to do with a “hard cock” so how would we “miss” it?
This got really bad really fast. First of all, not all lesbians are repulsed by penises. Just because you are doesn’t mean everyone is. I know tons of lesbians that aren’t attracted to males but are not horribly disgusted by penis. There are lesbians who aren’t penis repulsed the same way there are gay men who aren’t vagina repulsed. Lack of attraction does not mean repulsed by. Your statement also excludes lesbians who are trans women, because they’re more likely to be attracted to transwomen with various genitalia. Also not all trans women have a penis so you’re doing that exact blanket statement by saying youd never be attracted to transwomen because you think all lesbians are penis repulsed. If that’s how you feel then fine but don’t act like you can tell people what other lesbians are attracted to and exclude trans women from lesbianism and conversations about gay women sexuality. Saying all lesbians are automatically penis repulsed is kinda immature tbh.
I keep thinking about that straight girls in gay bars post and so here’s a list of things that straight people have done to me or around me in gay bars
I ask a pretty girl if she wants to dance. She looks at me with disgust and says, “I’m not gay” in the snottiest valley girl voice I’ve ever heard.
A short greasy dude will not leave me the fuck alone at the bar. I tell him multiple times “I am a lesbian.” He says, “me too” and in the same breath tells me I’ll like it if I try it. When the guy steps away to talk to his friend, three gay men surround me and buy me a drink and swear to keep him away from me for the rest of the night.
2am, drunk, cheering on my favorite local drag queen on stage. A contestant from Dr*g R*ce is in the audience, hanging out, supporting her friends. The straight girls next to me spot her and start shrieking at the top of their lungs and trying to get to her. Security escorts the contestant elsewhere so no one could get near her. Not a single straight person in the audience tips any of the performing queens.
I’m by myself on the dance floor, feeling myself to Bey, as you do. A man comes up to me and starts dancing. After a minute, he starts grinding on me and tries to kiss me. I put my hand in his face and tell him I’m a lesbian. He says something very vulgar that I don’t completely remember because I was drunk af. I tell him to fuck off and I leave the dance floor completely. I end up on the patio with a beautiful butch girl and when I tell her what just happened, she offers to beat him up for me.
A girl with a bachelorette party, telling me, with complete seriousness, that she was just discriminated against at the bar for being straight. What happened? The bartender didn’t pay attention to her immediately and she had to wait “forever” for her drink.
Related: Almost every negative review of my favorite gay bar is by a straight person. At least half of them claim that the bartenders or bouncers discriminated against them.
And then this one isn’t bad, it just made me laugh when it happened
Guy: hey can you ask the bartender for a drink for me? They usually pay more attention to girls Me: oh baby not here they don’t lol Guy: ?? Me: This is a gay bar, sweetheart Guy: I… oh… *looks at the shirtless male bartenders, the go go boys, the rainbow flags, the drag queen behind me, the glitter everywhere* *walks away in a daze*
Okay first of all, you’re heterophobic if you think straight people are the cause of all of the problems in a gay bar.
Second, just, fuck off.
“heterophobic”
Yep, heterophobic, like homophobic but against straight people.
I am not against straight people! I can’t be heterophobic and I have like bunches of straight friends. They are great, we get together and do straight people stuff like mini golf and yelling outside of abortion clinics.
I can’t be heterophobic when I have at least three straight friends and I don’t judge them! Like, as long as they aren’t being straight in front of me because no one needs to see that lol. But no, I love the straights!
news flash: asking straights to be Decent Human Beings in queer spaces is now heterophobic
i read an article about how straight women using the term girlfriend makes it really difficult for the rest of us and all the comments are straight women complaining and telling us to just ask girls straight up if they’re into women, as if that couldn’t get us killed or the shit beaten out of us, but do go on, straight women, about how hard it is for you to choose your language a little more considerately
and it goes the other way too when you’re trying to make reference to your partner and the other person just assumes you’re talking about a platonic friend. why wouldn’t you just say friend
I mean this post was about women but uh ok sure
So it is difficult to figure our if women are straight and just have friends who are ladies when they use the term girlfriend for their bffs, but also a difficulty when a woman is trying to convey that she has a committed wlw relationship because too many people think she’s just talking about one of her friends. I think the op covered both instances, but the second part was trying to emphasize the latter. In writing ‘girl friend’ should be friend who is a girl and ‘girlfriend’ should be a dating relationship, but as language evolves that seems to have fallen out of favor. Besides, it does nothing to help spoken language. So seriously, straight people, stop unnecessarily specifying the gender of your friends! That will probably be clear in the rest of your sentence, anyway. Leave girlfriend for those of us that have them!
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