1. vanilla coke bi or cherry coke bi? 2. smoky eye bi or sharp eyeliner bi? 3. gold bi or silver bi? 4. moon bi or sun bi? 5. walk in the forest bi or walk on the beach bi? 6. milkshake bi or smoothie bi? 7. pastel bi or neon bi? 8. PwP (plot without porn) bi or PwP (porn without plot) bi? 9. pun loving bi or pun hating bi? 10. strong bi-fi game bi or weak bi-fi game bi? 11. cat bi or dog bi? 12. boyband bi or girlband bi? 13. coffee bi or tea bi? 14. dyed hair bi or natural hair bi? 15. romcom bi or thriller bi? 16. matte lipstick bi or glossy lipstick bi? 17. dragons bi or dinosaurs bi? 18. coffee shop au bi or high school au bi? 19. nicki minaj bi or beyoncé bi? 20. history bi or science bi? 21. frida kahlo bi or virginia woolf bi? 22. highkey bi or lowkey bi? 23. bowtie bi or tie bi? 24. selfie bi or candid bi? 25. pizza bi or pasta bi? 26. black nailpolish bi or colorful nailpolish bi? 27. soft and squishy bi or sharp and pointy bi? 28. *NSYNC bi or backstreet boys bi? 29. kinky bi or vanilla bi? 30. playing with people’s hair bi or having your hair played with bi? 31. norse mythology bi or greek mythology bi? 32. velvet bi or cashmere bi? 33. black eyeliner bi or colorful eyeliner bi? 34. book quote bi or tv show quote bi? 35. big city bi or small city bi? 36. rough sex bi or gentle sex bi? 37. melon bi or grapefruit bi? 38. bubblegum bi or breath mint bi? 39. mesh bi or lace bi? 40. vegetable bi or fruit bi? 41. jeans jacket bi or leather jacket bi? 42. sliced fruit bi or whole fruit bi? 43. heels bi or sneakers bi? 44. friendship crush bi or romantic crush bi? 45. desert bi or ocean bi? 46. going to sleep at 8 am bi or getting up at 8 am bi? 47. messy bun bi or ponytail bi? 48. bee bi or bumblebee bi? 49. parks & rec bi or friends bi? 50. faux fur bi or faux leather bi? 51. Extra™ bi or regular bi? 52. acoustic bi or remix bi? 53. message bi or ask bi? 54. board game bi or card game bi? 55. desaturated bi or color porn bi? 56. pop bi or indie bi? 57. painting star constellations on their skin bi or painting animals bi? 58. astrology bi or mbti bi? 59. pride parade bi or celebrating in ur PJs bi? 60. eyelashes bi or eyebrows bi?
❤️shoutout to gay people who used to think they were bi
💛shoutout to bi people who used to think they were gay
💚sexuality is complicated, there’s nothing wrong with taking time to figure yourself out
💙you aren’t “adhering to stereotypes” or anything like that.
💜there is nothing wrong with your identity!
For us to showcase this character who is a core member of the ensemble, who’s not going anywhere, who is happy, who has friends, a chosen family that she loves, and who is successful in her life, is something I never saw growing up on television. I never thought a happy ending could be for me. And now I am playing someone who is out, who is bi, and who is going to succeed. There’s a beautiful line that Captain Holt, played by Andre Braugher, says in the show. He says, “Every time someone says who they are, it makes the world a better, more interesting place.”
In honor of Janelle Monáe coming out I put together a lil graphic about bi & pan identities! This is based on my own experiences within the community as someone who uses both terms. It of course does not cover everything! Image description under the cut.
“Anyone you’re dating who gets upset upon learning you’re bi is doing you a favor by disqualifying themselves from the list of People Who Get to Date You.”
“Amazingly, in a funny way, I never had any shame about sexuality – I just never did. I never felt it as wrong. I felt at certain times it was going to be difficult because people weren’t very receptive to it but I never felt it was something wrong with me.”
If you think you’re bi for a month or a year or your whole life and then realize you’re a lesbian, that’s fine!!
If you think you’re a lesbian for a month or a year or your whole life and then realize you’re bi, that’s also fine!!
Figuring out your sexuality is a long and complicated process, and things can change. It doesn’t mean you were lying, faking, or anything like that, and if anyone says otherwise they’re wrong and also horrible. Girls who like girls are cool no matter what your history is
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