hot take but girls with ADHD don’t ‘present differently’, it’s just that misogyny punishes girls and people read as girls a lot more severely for their ADHD symptoms so most girls become way more proficient at masking their symptoms so end up being left undiagnosed and then just develop depression, anxiety, trauma and burnout over not being able to meet standards that are difficult if not impossible for people with ADHD and being harshly reprimanded for it
Tag: ADHD
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– You are standing in the bathroom. How long has it been? 30 seconds? 20 minutes? You turn the handle slowly and go about your day. Try to forget the time you can’t remember.
– You say something. Someone responds, but you don’t know what they’re talking about. They look at you questioningly. You have no memory of what you just said.
– You think you’re going back your old elementary school, but when you walk in, there’s just two recordings playing on repeat. One says “Not working to full potential. Not working to full potential. Not working to full potential.” The other says “Organization needs improvement. Organization needs improvement”. You have been in this room for years.
– You’re sitting in class. It is interesting. The teacher is good. Suddenly you can’t stop fidgeting. You feel like you’re going to scream, but you make no sound. You need to leave. NOW. Before you smash your desk to pieces.
– You are sad. So so so so so so sad. Wait. You are ok. You are happy. You are angry. You are bored. You are so so so so so so sad. You are happy. It’s been half an hour
– You are exhausted. You can barely lift your head, but your leg keeps bouncing. It’s using energy you don’t have. You don’t know where it’s getting it from.
– You think you’re doing well in a class. There’s a nagging thought in the back of your mind. When’s the last time you did homework? You check your grade. It’s a D.
– Everyday, you think to do the same thing when you get home. It’s been weeks. You still haven’t done it. You wonder if your house is messing with your mind. You think to do something about it, but when you walk throuh your front door, you forget.
– It’s 1:45. You need to get on the bus at 2. You check the clock. 1:45. You check the clock. 1:45. You check the clock. 1:46. You stop checking for a few minutes. You check again. It’s 2:01. The bus is gone.
Adhd things:
- Enjoying things at either 1000000000% or 2%, no middle ground
- “there’s no doodling in my class” welp I’ll just take that f now I guess
- Getting distracted from one infodump to start on another infodump and then getting distracted from that infodump to go to another etc.,
- When that rsd hits and just,, instant ko
- “why do you drink so much caffeine?”
- Literally zero perception of time. If it was more that 20 minutes ago it may as well have been last year
- “we talked about this, don’t you remember” “do I remember? No, but I believe you that it happened”
- What the fuck do you mean it’s midnight i just woke up

Hi! I have decided to make this masterpost, putting in one place everything that I have found ADHD – related!
For some links, I have listed some of the things you can find there, choosing those that I thought were the most useful, but check the whole site because everything is great!
BASICS:
- what is ADHD.
- types of ADHD.
- adult ADHD.
- adults vs kids ADHD.
- women and ADHD.
- ADHD test – please, tho, don’t take this for granted and please don’t self diagnose, talk with your doctor about the results! TO GET SPECIAL ACCOMODATIONS AT SCHOOL IN A LOT OF COUNTRIES A CERTIFICATION IS NEEDED!!!
- the best ADHD related youtube channel. – adhd in girls // sleeping // relationships // how fidgeting is useful.
- signs of ADHD.
- debunked myths.
- things nobody tells you about having ADHD.
7 Everyday Struggles Of People With ADHD.
STUDYING:
- studying with ADHD. (problems+solutions)
- 15 study tips for students with ADHD.
- more study tips.
- even more tips.
- another list of tips.
- exam tips. // grade tips.
- math accomodations.
- writing help / websites.
- APPS.
- ADHDtricks – format study material // blue tack // trouble understanding // readable web .
FOCUSING:
- keep your focus.
- food to help focusing.
- chronic procrastination.
- hyperfocus.
- fight distractions.
- focus right now.
- more focusing hacks.
MISC:
- boredom.
- sleeping. // tips for better sleep.
- medications + avoid side effects.
- meds’ side effects (and how to reduce them.)
- more about meds.
- ADHD strenghts!
- read some life experiences!
- planning. + great planning site.
- relationships.
- 2 hour glitter jar calming video + how to make one!
- some satisfying videos.
- aquarium calming video.
WEBSITES:
- CHADD.
- ADDA – adhd starter kit!
- ADHDtogether.
- kidsinthehouse’s ADHD section.
- ADHD reddit.
- Totallyadd.
- verywell’s ADHD section.
- ADDtitudemag.
- ADHD study tumblr.
- Social networks! Use facebook to find support groups and pages, use Tumblr to connect with others like you and use Twitter to find out about new articles and resources with the tag #adhd!
Thats it! Hope you have found this mp useful, feel free to add things!
+ other links:
