I thought I should update since the last image I posted was fresh after medical tattooing so everything was a lot brighter (medical tattoos lose 60% of colour after 4 weeks and the rest is retained over a number of years before a touch up is required).
I have an FAQ below but my inbox is open to questions.
FAQ:
Do you have sensation?
I have full penile sensation. Both tactile and erotic. I also have full sensation in my old equipment which is buried under the skin.
Can you get erect?
Not spontaneously. I use an erectile device which many cis men also use. While I can’t get erect without a device, it also means I have full control over my erections so I a: avoid spontaneous public embarrassment and b: can literally sustain an erection for a week or as long as needed in order to satisfy a partner. I use an AMS 700 erectile device. Google that and it’ll bring up videos of how it works.
Can you penetrate a partner?
Yes
Can you stand to pee?
Yes
Do you pass as cis?
I’ve gotten changed in many a public changing room without incident, regularly use urinals, and have never had any issues in my day to day life.
Can you orgasm?
It’s a myth that you lose the ability to orgasm. Microsurgery connects nerves from your graft site (e.g. Arm) up to the penis, and later nerves from the t dick to the penis. Even if your nerve hookups fail you still retain sensation in the t dick regardless of burial status. I can technically have 3 types of orgasm, from stimulation of the penis or buried cl***is, or both together. Each experience is different.
Did it hurt?
Not as much as I expected it would.
How much did it cost?
I am a British citizen and covered by the NHS which I pay for out of my taxes. I paid for my own medical tattooing. (2 sessions, £200 each)
How long were you off work?
13 weeks stage 1. 8 stage 2. 3 stage 3. Was back at work within 30 mins of medical tattooing.
Replying to replies: Yes I do feel the tattooing was worth it. The pigment really blends with the light so depending on how the room is lit it shows up differently and just looks like how natal genitalia is more flushed in colour wherever there is more of a blood supply. I am VERY white so without tattooing the lack of pigmentation is obvious.
The pain was surprisingly manageable. A little spicy at times but felt more like being scratched than stabbed. The pigment should last at least 2 years before requiring 1 top up session. I expect to only need a top up in 3 years because of how my skin reacts to pigment and how often I am out in the sun (never). The money I paid was affordable to me as a one off, and the maintainence costs of touch ups are equally as affordable to me personally.
Can you please reblog if your blog is a safe place for lesbian, gay, bisexual, transgender, asexual, aromantic, pansexual, non binary, demisexual or any other kind of queer or questioning people? Because mine is.
really struggling right now. Ive always been fat except right after doing jenny craig from 4-6th grade. (yep I begged to do a diet like that while still a CHILD)
In my early 30s I had finally accepted living in the body I’ve got. Was finally happy in my skin. then I got pregnant again, lost the baby, got pregnant again and had gestational diabetes. I’ve gained even more weight, depression isn’t helping, and I have to go in for a prediabetes class today. I’m bitter that my family doesn’t have diabetes, everyone is fat and when I had found self love I feel like I suddenly got whomped with what society thinks fat people deserve. My cholesteral: fine. My blood pressure? low side of good, but probably diabetic or leaning towards it. I can’t help feeling like now doctors are going to take away all the food I like just like my mom did when I was getting too fat as a child. fuck this.
Full story: I was trying to cosplay John Watson (which was my first ever out of my house in real clothes presenting as male despite having known for years that I am genderqueer) I nearly couldn’t breathe in the 1x which I foolishly ordered as if my chest measurement was my bra measurement. whoops. I returned that and ordered this based on an accurate measurement of the fullest part of my chest and it was a bit too loose. I ordered the 2x which was perfect and worked beautifully. I didn’t manage to return the 3x, so it could be yours!
I would love it to go to someone who needs a binder and can’t afford one. I can ship wherever you want within the continental US. If multiple people message me I’ll do some kind of random selection. Message me by July 30th 2017. I want it out of my house and being useful somewhere!
TLDR: Anyone need one of these? I have a 3x nude color Underworks Ultimate Chest Binder. Just message me.
As a kid, leftovers were always the worst, but, as an adult, leftovers are like a little present I left to my future self cause now I don’t have to cook.
My mum always made “planovers” which were when she cooked more than she needed and had some way to change it into a different meal with almost no cooking. She took that gift to future self thing seriously AND we didn’t hate leftovers. She drove me crazy some ways, but damn can that women plan a meal.
Vikings were historically recorded trading in the far east, middle east, and into large parts of northern Africa. They set up colonies and outposts, married local women, and absorbed local customs and traditions.
BRUH ARE U KIDDING ME THE HIGHWAY I LIVE NEAR HAS BEEN UNDER CONSTRUCTION FOR LIKE 4 DAMN YEARS AND IT TAKES THEM 6 MONTHS JUST TO FIX A DAMN POT HOLE
The hell do you mean “capitalism could never”??????? Last I checked, the UK is still a capitalist nation. The US could never because the US doesn’t invest in public works to the same level as other comparably large economies because we spend all our money on the military.
Whaleologist is right but….fuckin what? You can seriously do that shit in 15 hours. I honestly am amazed. That’s how you know I’m a fucking American, like, my goddamned mind is blown.
This isn’t an issue of capitalism or even public works investment.
This is an issue of how American budgets work, because America is the most idiotically designed country you could ever imagine.
American budgets are not organized by need, they’re effectively PRESCRIBED. There’s no pool of government funding that is assigned according to where money needs to go at any given time. We assign budgets in advance and they’re extremely difficult to change. Guaranteed if you ask any American politician about this, they’ll tell you it’s to “reduce government waste” by making people use their resources carefully instead of taking on unnecessary projects.
This is not what actually happens.
Because if you DON’T USE 100% of your budget every year, you will be assigned a lower budget for the next year, “to prevent government waste.” So they prescribe you a budget in advance and then you HAVE to use all of it, or else it’s a NIGHTMARE to do anything new in the future – you have to go through a billion hoops to get funding for a new infrastructure project that is a one-time expense. It’s not cheap to build a new thing, but because it’s a public good that will last a long time, you don’t need to budget for it every year – but the one year you do need to budget for it, it’s an enormous pain in the ass because everyone responsible is desperate to “cut government waste.”
So with American construction projects, especially on roadways, you basically have a system where people are FORCED to take longer than necessary just to use up their budgets. It is literally a regular occurrence in America for a road to be torn up for no reason, just so they can spend money filling it back in for the next four months.
And that’s why the crumbling, outdated, and underfunded infrastructure in America is an embarrassment to western civilization.
And the fact that this fucks up transportation, stresses people out, makes us all sicker and more miserable, and forces us to sit in traffic wasting gas that we have to spend a bunch of money on because one of the things we never invest in is mass public transit (because of heavy lobbying by the automotive and oil industries) – all of that should probably not be considered a coincidence.
In the name of “efficiency” and “cutting government waste,” we’ve invented the most fucked up, purposefully wasteful mandatory maximum budgeted spending that has totally eliminated our ability to respond to short term budgetary needs. Potholes take years to fix, construction goes on for years even as nothing actually gets done, etc. All because the budgets HAVE to be wasted in order for anyone to keep their funding – and notice how much of American budgets go toward things like “administrative costs”.
Our entire country is a money laundering conspiracy.
American capitalism is the most wasteful garbage budgeting system on earth.
It is fundamentally designed to be inefficient and stupid, because doing it this way allows us to keep government spending (on public goods) as close to the absolute minimum as humanly possible in order to preserve the lowest possible tax rates on the people who ‘matter’ to the people who are making the decisions – which of course means the wealthy donor class created by the dramatic shift in economic policy under Ronald Reagan.
Because every single goddamn problem in America is Ronald Reagan’s fault.
The agent’s decision to allow me to write about our conversations came after learning that ice was making a push, beginning this week, to arrest young undocumented immigrants who were part of a large wave of unaccompanied minors who crossed the border in recent years and who, until now, had been allowed to live in the U.S. Rather than detaining these young people, the government had placed them in the care of families around the country. Most of them are trying to lead new lives as American transplants, going to school and working. ice now plans to pursue those who have turned eighteen since crossing the border, and who, as a result, qualify for detention as legal adults. “I don’t see the point in it,” the agent said. “The plan is to take them back into custody, and then figure it out. I don’t understand it. We’re doing it because we can, and it bothers the hell out of me.”