Remember that queer history is global. There is not one country in the world that has no queer community and no queer history. No matter what the laws may be queer people have always existed and we have always made history and never let anyone tell you differently.
say queer again
we’re talking about queer people. if you don’t identify with that word, chances are… we weren’t talking about you
Chapters: 4/5 Fandom: Sherlock – Fandom Rating: Explicit Warnings: No Archive Warnings Apply Relationships: Sherlock Holmes/John Watson Characters: Sherlock Holmes, John Watson Additional Tags: Established Relationship, BDSM, Anal Sex, Oral Sex, Come play, Bondage, spider gag, Erotic Photography, Secrets, anxiety over kinks, past and internalized homophobia, I swear this is mostly happy porn though, Fandom Trumps Hate Summary:
John Watson has a secret. How long will it take his boyfriend to figure it out?
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i spent christmas alone while my family got together and fought, and honestly i feel so good about this
i bought myself presents, cooked a big meal, drank wine and watched Home Alone 3 w/ my dog. I don’t feel sorry for myself at all.
meanwhile my sister threatened to disown my dad so he threatened to disown her, while my mom enabled and my other sister downed a bottle of wine to deal.
on the other side of the country, i was busy discovering, to my delight, that the that the 3rd installment of the Home Alone franchise not only stood up to the test of time, but contains some of the best oneliners and comedic timing I have ever seen.
honestly, keep toxic people out of your life. family isn’t everything, and bad family is often worse than no family. don’t be afraid to put in some distance, especially during high stress times like the holidays. you don’t actually owe them anything.
being alone for the holidays is so much better than being with people who make you unhappy.