its “thighs rubbing together under ya sundress” season
Buy cute, cheap lace leggings. Cut them a little above your knee. Hem them or don’t, but then you can wear them under your sundresses and not worry about how you sit or if your thighs chafe, and if anyone sees them they look cute af so hell yes
Or a little deodorant between the thighs is magical
Also, LUSH sells this dust called Silky Underwear that makes your skin smooth so they don’t stick together or chafe.
I love that we’re all here for each other in this season of need
Monistat has an anti-chafing gel that works wonders and I live by. You can usually find it in the feminine care aisle of any drugstore.
There’s this stuff called Glide…pretty cheap & works hella miracles
I’m so ready for sundress season.
reblog to save a thigh
REBLOG TO SAVE A THIGH
Also bandelettes, anti-thigh chafing bands. I love these things.
share share share and be confident and comfortable in your dresses/skirts this summer, lovelies! 🙂
healthy polyamorous: 3 people all in a happy relationship o/
unhealthy polyamorous: joe loves becky and jim. becky is not comfortable sharing joe with jim, but stays quiet anyway.
not a polyamorous: joe has 4 girlfriends. shhhh. they dont know.
THIS
This is important.
Healthy poly can also look like this: Zee is dating Buck. Zee is also dating Jade. Jade and Buck are friends and know Zee is dating both of them, but Buck and Jade are not romantically involved.
How are you getting there?: I’m driving my car. If anyone needs a ride to the grocery store or something, I have wheels!
Cosplays: I MAY bring my Wonder Woman costume, but I’m not sure.
Where to find me: Artist Alley (anotherwellkeptsecret) and Fifty Shades of A (All Ages) Panel
Drinks: I can’t have alcohol because I have Crohn’s Disease, but I’ll be more than happy to drink an un-alcoholic beverage with you. (You can have enough alcohol for the both of us if you’d like!)
Hugs: I love hugs!
Pictures: I love pictures!
Anything else?: I’m going to be spending a lot of time at my table. It can get kinda boring/lonely depending on the time of day so please stop by and say hello and color with me! I’m bringing markers and colored pencils! And don’t be afraid to invite me to things. I often don’t know what’s going on outside the con schedule. I happily stumbled upon the Crow Wedding last year and I was delighted!
Conversely, I like to sleep. A lot. So if it’s a late thing I may prefer to go to bed. XD
Optional Contact Details: Best way to contact me is via text so if you need to reach me at con, just ask for my number! I am a TERRIBLE texter. And by that I mean I don’t carry on conversations well via text. So sending a ‘hi’ or ‘hello’ after con may not receive a response! I’m more than happy to chat, of course! But I’m a lot like Sherlock…in that one fic…not responding to texts that say ‘hi’. Brand of Gold? Miiiight be a defense mechanism I picked up in order to avoid talking to random dudes who ended up with my number. >.> Anyway! Calling is king.
You have no idea how many people lurk on your work. No idea how many times people go back to revisit your work. How big they smile when they simply think about your work. How fast their heart beats, how excited they get when they see that you posted something.
People are shy with their feedback. Sometimes it’s because they’re simply shy. Other times it’s because they assume you already know how great and talented you are. Could be both.
My point is, even if you barely have any likes or reblogs, don’t get discouraged. You have a lot of silent fans, but they are still your fans. Keep on creating. Because there is always someone out there who will love what you have made.
Relationships don’t take your anxiety away
Relationships don’t take your depression away
Relationships don’t stop the bad thoughts
Relationships don’t stop your mental illnesses
Reblog if it’s okay for your followers
to leave you an ask telling you what the one thing is they remember
you for as a writer. Is it a scene or a detail or a specific line?
Is it something like style or characterization? Is it that one weird
kink they never thought they’d be into, but oh my god wow
self-discovery time?
Located: Northern Delaware, though I originally hail not far from our host city, so I have the southern accent.
What do you do in fandom?: I write fanfic (on AO3 as DemonicSymphony and one half of AmphigoricSymphony) and cosplay and roleplay (Links here on my tumblr page for both of the latter). I do I tiny amount of gifage too.
How long are you staying?: Thursday-Monday
How are you getting there?: I’m flying in around 3pm. Out around noon???
Cosplays:
Jack Sparrow, CAPTAIN, CAPTAIN Jack Sparrow (Maybe, if I throw it in with my stuff)
Eggsy Unwin
Charlie Hesketh
And likely others. Idk. I lost over fifty pounds since last con. Almost nothing fits and I gave up on sewing anything for this year after like the third time I started Mr Darcy over because of weight loss. So, next year.
Kingsman The Re-Trashening – Saturday 9-10pm Florida
Drinks: Decidedly yes.
Hugs: Just don’t attack from behind because I startle easily!!!! I know lots of people laugh off being startled, but it can actually result in full blow panic attacks for me. I DON’T KNOW WHY. IT’S A WEIRD THING I DO. But it’s more like if you hid and purposefully scared me that that happens, rather than attacking with a hug.
If I already know you and you see me just throw your arms out. If I don’t know you, go “I’m so and so” and then throw your arms out. I am a HUGE hugger.
However. I have some pain conditions, soPLEASE DO NOT SQUEEZE ME HARD.
Pictures: yes!
Anything else?: I am partially deaf in my right ear and have a prosthesis in it. What this means for you: I have a very hard time hearing in crowded/loud spaces. I am NOT IGNORING YOU. Touch my arm, make sure I am looking at you. You may have to repeat yourself. There is the possibility if it’s loud enough, you may have to text me even if you are standing next to me. Or we may have to step outside the loud space.
If you’ve followed my blog for any time at all, you also know that I am the most migraineyiest of migrainey people on the planet. If I suddenly bail on you, this doesn’t mean you can’t follow me! It means I’m having to retreat to a quieter place. Often, because my migraines are chronic, it doesn’t always follow that I have to have total dark and quiet. I just might have to have quieter and/or darker. Things are much better these days, but hey! Things happen.
I’ll be up front if I’m bolting to be alone, alone. I’ll be like “Okay, I have to go lie down in the dark and not move” instead of “okay, we have to go some place quieter because my head hurts.”
Optional Contact Details: If you want to hang out at con, let me know through an ask or messenger. My snapchat is demonicsiansa as well. I’ll have business cards!
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